If you feel to be the most disadvantaged, is not useful, does not have a friend or friends, this is where you just once to visit.
Many of you who feel as I have described above, how does it feel? It must be extremely unpleasant and uncomfortable.
Here I will try to build your confidence slowly of course, because all the way to a destination no one short, because the shortcuts will only make all of your process crashed
From the research data, found many factors that make one reluctant constraints to be good caller. Among other things, lack of confidence, then followed by lack of skill. If we runut, both have a very close correlation. Actually the root of the problem of people who lack confidence lies in the skill (skill). And, the main skills for a good caller is located on the mastery of skills, understanding of the values presented, and the mastery of skills delivery.
To grow those three things need a habituation efforts. And to make it as a habit in a person permanently, it is necessary to invest several factors: First, understand. Without understanding the whole, people will not be able to work with sincerity, produktiftas weak, and will not last long. Second, having skills. People who do not have the skills usually will work with anxious and insecure. Third, the will. With the will, we can pray silently consistently in the range longer.
There are some practical tips to improve self-confidence. The main aspects include the willingness, understanding and skills. To fulfill the will aspect, you need to do a variety of businesses. Include:
1. Work with Ikhlas. Make sure that all good deeds will be rewarded, though not good to do.
2. Do any activities with full responsibility, has a base value (vaIue) and the principles of the strong.
3. Have a habit of receiving. This will increase the sense of belonging.
4. Increase sense of personal responsibility. With it, a sense of responsibility to solve human problems will grow.
5. Defend the rights habit. By way of encouraging a confidence to defend our rights are lost.
6. Have a habit of living with purpose. Without a strong purpose there will be no targets and less motivated to do a good activity though.
7. Self integrity. Major force for good caller is located on the power of integrity, the unity between the words, written statements and our actions.
While for the aspect of understanding and skills, perhaps a few steps you can try:
1. Have notes / reference material and neat agenda.
2. Prepare materials that will be delivered. Get up on stage without preparation, then down the stage filled with shame.
3. Read reference books, this is very help improve understanding.
4. Have a good memorization. People spoke rely what is remembered.
5. Take always the chance to perform in public at any time. As an exercise to launch the ability to talk and self-control.
6. Follow some training, such as training Training for Trainer, or similar training for trainers and facilitators who provide teaching skills.
With skills in the field of understanding and skills, plus a strong will, God willing improvement efforts, called on men to a path that God approves will have results and a long age range.
Dec 3, 2009
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