How to Solve the Problem

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Many of you-you who feel awkward, bewildered, confused as to appear on "stage" this is what causes a condition where you could do something good, auat can not find a way, a solution, a powerful trick of a problem very out of habit.
Problems and habits very closely related, why? You'll find the answer if you are thinking with your heart.
What? think with your heart? how?
So, think with your heart is doing the thinking process that racked his brains to find the best solution and the interests of all concerned public and rely on social norms of legal binding.
Was able to answer the connection between habits and problems?
okay, if not you can re-think with your heart and be careful.
Now talking about the problem, we know all the people no one wants to be involved, entangled, bound, linked, locked, interrupted by a problem in life. Therefore, we must be able to deal with it, How?
Haha, you no longer need to associate the problem with the habit, because your heart is the decisive
Okay, back to how to solve the problem
There are two types of people in dealing with issues or problems, whether in work or social life. Two types are reactive (reacting so problems come) and receptive (to accept the problem).

Reactive Approach

They are reactive usually see a problem as a threat. Whether the threat to his career, business, family, and so on. In this group you find a solution to the problem by using logical and traditional approaches. Characteristics:

* Once the problem you're likely to soon come looking for any way to overcome it.
* The problem is seen as factors inhibiting the development of self.
* You will soon develop strategies to deal with problems
* Because the problem is seen as a threat, he will dominate the mind and tend to cause anxiety and stress.

If you work in a company, you probably never asked to lead a project in which you are responsible for achieving certain targets. Here you are faced with situations requiring analysis, justification, and logical thinking dalan challenges or problems that arise. You will be in a depressed condition to meet the deadline. Predictably, you'll tend to use a reactive approach in solving problems.

Receptive Approach

This approach is usually practiced by those who have realized that the problem is not a threat but rather the consequences of a condition that we create. Therefore, we have the power to change these conditions from within ourselves. You will receive the problem and at the same time making solusinya.Ciri-character:

When trouble comes, you recognize it and use the approach:

* The problem is the opposite of the solution. When problems arise, you believe then that the solution already exists.
* You focus on the solution of problems arising, not on the cause of the problem. Thus, you take over control of yourself, rather than controlled by external circumstances.
* The problem is an opportunity for self-development. You see it as an opportunity to create a positive reality in your life.

Willing to accept the problem does not mean silence. You do not "anger" but recognized the problem calmly and make yourself responsive to everything you need to invite solutions.

The simplest example is when the spouse you love (eg wife, husband, or boyfriend) is sulking because a trivial matter. With a reactive approach, you will only make matters worse by wondering why he had to withdraw, analyze the cause and feel this condition would threaten the harmony of your relationship with him. Not Found solution but rather the anxiety and worry.

Receptive approach, you accept and realize that your partner is angry. You focus your energy to create the love that is basically the opposite of anger. You are not late getting carried away - trying to find the answer from the analysis of why he was so angry - but it took over control from within yourself, stay calm thinking, and showed a positive attitude in your behavior. You will feel that being in this situation would make you grow. You make a positive quality about yourself to surface and have become the law of nature to behave this way your partner will undoubtedly change from anger to love.

This receptive approach to practice in the life of your business, household, and social. Essentially you build confidence that the problem is not real so you do not feel burdened. Train yourself to not reactive when a problem arise. Focus yourself on the opposite of the problem, namely the solution, to find the controls rather than late in the problem.