Why Smart People Can Fail?

How much of what can be taught by the failure of self -
us! Those who learn from mistakes can come back with
a stronger condition than before.

You may have failed in your career. The only way to
avoid failure is to never try to pursue success; fixed
stay where you are now. Actually you can learn from
failure, think about what went wrong and fix it. You
has the power to change. Even a successful man like Samuel
Beckett, author of the play's most prominent theater in the twentieth century,
once wrote that he was not familiar with failure, "after
breathe in deeply with the air of an exciting life. "

Thorough research is very important to the defeat. You have to deal with
failure to avoid a possible repeat. Based on interviews
with nearly 200 people who have overcome career failure
large, the following six most common reasons for failure. Whoever you are,
you may find yourself in this list.

1-Lack of Social Skills.

Most people who lack social skills reasoned that
"Office politics" was the cause of their failure. However, no office politics
more than the normal interaction between the employees. If you have
difficulties with "office politics", perhaps you really have
difficulties in dealing with others. Most careers involve
others. No matter how great your academic intelligence, keep your
need to have social intelligence, (eg, ability to listen, be sensitive
the feelings of others, give and take criticism well).
People who have high social intelligence to admit their mistakes,
moved on and know how to build support for the team. Social intelligence
is a skill that can be obtained with practice.

2-Not Suitable.

Maybe you did not fail, only to suffer a case
mismatch. Success requires a match between skills, interests,
personality, power and values in your work. If you feel
not match, then feel free to review the work and behavior
adjust or change his job. For some people, the main
the question is how much risk is taken bold.

3-Lack of Commitment.

Something done by halves increases the chance of failure.
Fantasy fear of failure that happen to people who do not have
commitments can cause it to avoid failure by not involving
emotionally. In addition, lack of self respect
is the primary cause of failure. To be able to take part in the success,
You must be sure that you can do it.

4-Too Scattered Focus.

Some people do too many activities that eventually no
make a good one. Focus on your self back on what
best done. Realize your limitations, set priorities, and
set up your business organization, is the main things to achieve Suskes.

5-Hidden Obstacles

Sometimes the hidden obstacles that are difficult fight. For example,
age, sex discrimination and race. You should review,
based on a correct analysis of the situation, to regain
control over life and your future.

6-Deplorable.

Sometimes an event happens and you can not avoid it.
What can you do? First, do not blame yourself if
it happened. Second, remember that you always have a choice,
although the choice is not obvious.

The opportunity came again, and the direction that you set may be
changed again. But if you can think clearly about the failure,
if you meyadari that you are one who always have a choice,
then you will be able to overcome a valuable lesson.

Why smart people can fail? They can fail because
many reasons. But failure is not the issue. Guy
best punbbisa experience kegagalanb,. What is important is
bagaimaan we ememtik lessons from our failures. What characteristics
protruding from the people who ebnar really clever? They learned the lesson.
(adapted from "Why Smart People Can Fail", Carole Hyatt and Linda
Gottlieb)